Sunday nights are awesome at our house. We have a evening of family time to simply enjoy each others' company and be a bit irresponsible. Don't get me wrong, the other six-and-a-half plus days of the week we're quite responsible... we keep our commitments and schedules and do our best to meet all expectations. But Sunday nights are different.
Years ago, in an interview, I heard Bono mention something about taking long vacations with his wife and kids, and giving themselves permission to be ridiculous. I can imagine the life of a mega-star like Bono is not typically his own; there are so many people to please and contracts to uphold, any time you block out personally is precious. So I understand why, as a guy with strong faith and a good value set, Bono would want to break away with his family.
But 'ridiculous'? That didn't really resonate with me until, in our own family, we set Sunday nights as a time to put aside responsibilities and expectations and just knock around. Now I look forward to Sunday nights with great anticipation just because it's fun.
After all our diligence at work and school and activities, and the exercising and healthy eating and volunteering, we fill a couple of hours with 'snacky supper' and internet videos. I posted last year about our tapas-style supper that we've refined over the years - check it out here. These days snacky supper is all healthy foods with lots of fruits and veggies and hummus and such. And the entertainment is the best part:
- Mental Floss - on YouTube (they have a tremendous channel you can subscribe to with loads of fun and enriching content)
- Dude Perfect - on YouTube (these five college roommates are just cool and zany and fun, and they draw huge numbers with their trick shot and 'stereotype' videos... good stuff.)
- Michael Jr. - if you haven't seen some of his dry, street-smart, family-friendly humor, you need to look him up
- Tim Hawkins - on YouTube (a Christian comedian with a crazy edge)
- And when all else fails, we watch 'Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives' on Netflix, Hulu or the Food Network
Every time we let our hair down like this we enjoy some laughs, or stretch our thinking, or gain some perspective while hanging out together. And when everything is cleaned up and we go to bed, we're ready to bear down and be responsible again come Monday morning. Maybe you want to consider some time to be a bit irresponsible while hanging out with family or friends or someone you love - it can be a great shared experience, and get you ready to launch into whatever requires you to be responsible.
By the Way
While my memory of Bono's comments may have been close, Bono is actually quoted as having said:
"The right to be irresponsible and stupid is something I hold very dear. And luckily it is something I do well."
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